12 Mar The Rise of Bullying: Why We Must Take a Stand

Bullying is not just ‘kids being kids.’ It’s a serious issue affecting young people across South Africa, leaving emotional scars that can last a lifetime. Recent cases, like the Khanyisile Sutherland High School bullying incident, highlight the urgent need for action. But beyond the headlines, what can be done to address bullying and create safer spaces for young people?

Understanding Bullying: More Than Just Physical Harm

Bullying comes in many forms—physical, verbal, emotional, and now, more than ever, cyberbullying. With social media amplifying harmful behaviour, victims often find no escape from the torment, making it harder to heal and recover.

Common types of bullying include:

• Physical bullying – Hitting, pushing, or damaging someone’s belongings.
• Verbal bullying – Name-calling, insults, or spreading rumours.
• Cyberbullying – Harassment through social media, messages, or online platforms.
• Exclusion – Deliberately isolating someone from a group or activity.

No matter the form, the impact of bullying can be devastating, leading to anxiety, depression, and in extreme cases, even self-harm.

Why Is Bullying on the Rise?

Several factors contribute to the growing cases of bullying in schools and online:

• Social Media Pressure: The need for likes and validation can fuel toxic behaviour.
• Lack of Awareness: Many young people don’t realise the deep emotional toll their words and actions can have.
• Normalisation of Violence: Exposure to aggressive behaviour in society, media, and even homes can make bullying seem ‘acceptable.’
• Lack of Consequences: Many cases go unpunished, allowing bullying to thrive unchecked.

How Can We Stop It? Tackling bullying requires a collective effort from schools, parents, students, and society as a whole. Here’s how we can make a difference:

• Speak Up: If you witness bullying, don’t be a bystander. Support the victim and report it.
• Create Safe School Environments: Schools must enforce strict anti-bullying policies and provide mental health support for affected students.
• Encourage Open Conversations: Parents, teachers, and peers should talk about bullying openly, helping victims feel heard and supported.
• Promote Kindness Online and Offline: Social media should be a place for connection, not cruelty. Think before you post, and challenge harmful behaviour.
• Support Mental Health Resources: Therapy and counselling should be accessible to those affected by bullying.

A Future Without Bullying Starts With Us

Bullying won’t disappear overnight, but every small action helps. By fostering a culture of kindness, empathy, and accountability, we can create a world where no young person feels unsafe or unheard.

If you or someone you know is experiencing bullying, don’t stay silent—reach out, get help, and remember, you’re never alone in this fight.