18 Oct Soft Life on a Budget: How To Romanticise Everyday Moments

Writer: Khethiwe Sibeko

When people talk about the “soft life,” you probably picture expensive spa days, bottomless brunches, silk robes, and a wardrobe full of designer labels. But here’s the truth: soft life isn’t about how much money you have. It’s about the way you treat yourself — gently, intentionally, and with kindness — even when your wallet is tight.

As a student, intern, or anyone hustling to get by, it can feel impossible to tap into that sense of peace and luxury. But soft life isn’t measured in rands. It’s about slowing down, making ordinary moments beautiful, and giving yourself permission to rest.

What soft life really means

Forget luxury brands for a second. Soft life is about creating calm and joy in the everyday. Think:

• Playing your favourite playlist while making two-minute noodles.
• Sipping Rooibos in a mug that makes you smile.
• Taking a slow evening walk to watch the sunset.
• Lighting that R35 Pep Home candle and letting it transform your space.
• Journaling under a blanket while your fairy lights glow.

These little rituals are what make life feel soft — not the price tag.

Easy ways to live the soft life (without breaking the bank)

Use what you already have, but make it special. Even instant coffee feels like a café moment if you add cinnamon and play soft background music.

Take care of your space. Tidy up, add photos, or drape fairy lights. A peaceful room equals a peaceful mind.

Start “Soft Life Sundays.” Dedicate one hour a week to reset: journal, stretch, do a face mask, or just lie down with no pressure to perform.

Budget-friendly self-care. DIY a sugar-and-oil body scrub, grab an affordable face mask, or draw a bubble bath. Small indulgences add up.

Thrift and swap. Shop second-hand or trade clothes with friends. Style isn’t about money, it’s about creativity and confidence.

Apps to help you romanticise life

• Pinterest: For endless ideas on food, style, and room décor.
• Notion: Keep your routines and goals aesthetic and organised.
• Insight Timer: Free meditations and calming music for stressed days.
• Snapseed: Edit your everyday pics so even your cup of tea looks like a vibe.

Soft life story: Zanele’s way

Meet Zanele Khumalo, 22, a journalism student from Soweto who has mastered her version of the soft life.

“Every morning, I play jazz, drink Rooibos, and open my window for fresh air. I journal, then take a slow walk to the park. That’s my peace,” she says.

Zanele thrifts her wardrobe, cooks comforting food like chakalaka and toast, and creates solo movie nights with candles, popcorn, and laughter.

“I may not afford spa days, but I’ve built peace at home. Soft life isn’t luxury — it’s peace of mind.”

The takeaway

Soft life doesn’t need to drain your bank account. It’s about slowing down, appreciating the moment, and choosing kindness toward yourself. So light your Pep Home candle, slip into that thrifted outfit, sip your tea slowly, and let every moment feel like a slice of luxury.

Because soft life? It’s not about money. It’s about heart.